When coming into the Lifestyle, most couples and individuals will find that group play / voyeurism & exhibitionism is a commonly enjoyed aspect of the Lifestyle for a lot of people! There really is something that can be extremely sexy & exhilarating about watching & being watched by other hot Lifestylers, but in order for there to be fun had by all, and no confusion in the pile of hot bodies all having fun at once, there has to be some rules in play, and basic respect for others around you while in a group setting.
I have put together a list of Playroom Rules & Etiquette for those of you who may be new, or maybe not realize that these things exist!
The first one may seem obvious & is likely one of the most important rules:
-Never under any circumstances touch anyone or involve yourself in anyone's playtime without explicit consent from that person/couple. Do not assume that because someone is in a group play area that they are comfortable with being touched by a stranger. If someone is playing, it's usually best to just enjoy the show and not interrupt!
Which leads us to our next point:
-If you are in the playroom to watch others, be a good audience! Do not be disruptive to the room. Loud, off-topic conversation can be very distracting to those who are trying to enjoy spicy activities, so it's best to leave the socializing in the main hall! Additionally, people who are trying to play do not want to hear commentary and/or coaching from others in the room. Overall, it's best to keep conversations to a minimum and just enjoy!
Another extremely important rule that, again, may seem obvious:
-There is absolutely never to be any cell phone usage of any kind while in the playrooms. Please use a locker to store your phone while you are playing, as getting caught with a phone out in the playroom is a bannable offense and one that we do not take lightly.
The last "rule" is more of a common courtesy than a rule:
-Do not "hog" play space for longer than necessary, especially if you are only in the room to watch. There are lots of people who want to play & use the beds/space available, and there is nothing worse than trying to find a bed to get spicy on, only to have one couple bogarting a king sized bed for an undisclosed amount of time, or another just sitting on the bed chatting. Get your spot, get your freak on, and then move on so that someone else can too!
In conclusion, when playing in a group setting, just have some common sense and respect for your fellow Lifestylers & everything will stay sexy and fun for everyone!
If you ever have any questions about playroom etiquette or a concern regarding any of these things, you are always welcome to reach out to the team and we'd be happy to clarify/assist you!
TNG Floor Manager